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What does it take?
Published on February 19, 2006 By singrdave In Blogging
I am trying to find out some information. And hopefully learning something along the way. Call it a solicitation for opinion, ranting, musing, whatever... on the part of JUsers and others, if appropriate.

What does it take to be a Respected Blogger?

There are many reasons why you would respect a blogger...

Opinionated... and literate enough to convey that opinion to others.
Have a readable style.
Post on interesting topics.
Conduct a well-moderated intelligent thread, not allowing it to escalate into a flame war.
Possess first-hand knowledge on a topic.
The ability to be light hearted when possible and deeply serious when necessary.
Defend opinions against trolls and flamers.
Able to admit when he/she is wrong.

I think blogging in and of itself means that you want to share your opinions with the world. You therefore must be just as prepared to receive criticism or ridicule as you are to praise or adulation. Not everybody is going to agree with you, simply because we all view the world through our own little window that is colored and shaped by our life experiences.

Let's take a moment to define what a Respected Blogger is...

First, the RB does not beat around the bush or mince words. RBs will call you out if you are an idiot or a troll. The RB will defend his or her opinions to a dying breath. The RB will call a spade a spade, if you will. They do not, however, lower themselves to a level of abusive or demeaning language. They neither start the fight nor do they end it.

Second, the RB keeps the flames and trolls to a minimum. They direct the thread back on topic while defending against those who would only rear their ugly heads to defame and move on. The RB conducts a lively and thoughtful conversation and gives praise when a good point is raised. (But also see #1.)

Next, an RB is one who responds in a lively manner to others' threads. They neither horde points nor do they whore points. The RB has something to say on many topics, from global warming to the Olympics to a new kitten.

Last in my list of definition, in my humble opinion, a Respected Blogger is one who genuinely wants to be a voice for social change. Whether that social change is towards the right or the left, towards moderation in diet or anti-pollution, stupidity in government or in social programs... an RB has something to say in which he/she believes passionately.


What are the benefits of being a Respected Blogger?
In other words, "What's in it for me?"
Well, the respect of your JU peer group. People will bookmark to your site and eventually flock to your site to seek your opinion on vital issues. You will get your point -- your point, not someone else's -- across to the masses. Your readers will come to know you as a person and understand you.

Like the Depeche Mode song, "Somebody":
She will listen to me
When I want to speak
About the world we live in
And life in general
Though my views may be wrong
They may even be perverted
She will hear me out
And won't easily be converted
To my way of thinking
In fact she'll often disagree
But at the end of it all
She will understand me


So what do you think? Do we have what it takes to become a "Respected Blogger"?

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on Feb 19, 2006
Question: does an RB perform shameless bumps?
on Feb 19, 2006
Opinionated... and literate enough to convey that opinion to others.Have a readable style.Post on interesting topics.Conduct a well-moderated intelligent thread, not allowing it to escalate into a flame war.Possess first-hand knowledgeability on a topic.The ability to be light hearted when possible and deeply serious when necessary.Defend opinions against trolls and flamers.Able to admit when he/she is wrong. - singrdave

Great thread, but let's keep in mind becoming a RB is no exact science. Let's put the question in perspective by posing another one. When does one become an adult? The answers one might be tempted to offer would possibly be along the lines of:

a) when one becomes 'of age' to physically be able to enage in sexual conduct (pubescent)
when one becomes age 18; an 'adult' liable and eligible for legal bearings and repercussions (17 according to some states such as MO)
c) when one has children themselves
d) when one proves themselves responsible enough to hold the reigns to all things 'adult' - car payments, house payments, steady job, etc...

The answer is as follows: One is an adult when society recognizes one as such.

So obviously one becomes a RB when one's chosen environment (the blog site and it's users + one's own opinion of one's conduct) recognizes one as an RB.

All the reasons you stated above, singrdave, are good supporting evidence of an RB but I'm willing to bet one could still find themselves incredibly disrespected yet still claim to be following the conventional wisdom of the offered evidences you've offered.

Whatever the checklist, whatever answers you get, I don't think you will have much problem here keeping your status as an 'RB'.


on Feb 19, 2006
A good post. The blogger must also believe in the positions he takes and should be in a position to defendit.
on Feb 20, 2006
The prerequisite of a "respected" blogger is not only intelligent expression but the presupposition that he or she is writing to respectful readers. 
on Feb 20, 2006
How about: Keeping a cool head when confronted by disrespectful/rude know-it-alls?
on Feb 20, 2006
I don't think 'defending your position to your dying breath' is a sign of a respected blogger. A respected blogger will know when to call it quits and accept that they are equally as well informed as their opponent and neither is going to convince the other.

Every site has a couple of issues where everyone involved has fairly entrenched views. While new developments in those fields are debated fairly intensely, in the end the respected bloggers are going to accept that the community is more important than failing to persuade their temporary opponents.

Still, an interesting article.
on Feb 20, 2006
Great points LW and thanks for the ups! I respect bloggers who have the balls to say exactly what their blog is intended for. I might not agree with it but if you say "this blog is about bashing Bush and if you don't want to hear it, don't read on." I'm fine with that.

I also respect bloggers who don't jump to conclusions about other bloggers. Like LW said, your political affiliation doesn't automatically say anything about you as a whole person. There are plenty of bloggers that I don't agree with on politics or religion but I respect their opinions and enjoy their blogs about everything else.

Interesting topic singrdave. I personally think you fall in the RB category.
on Feb 20, 2006
I really wasn't trying to solicit praise, but...
don't think you will have much problem here keeping your status as an 'RB'.

I personally think you fall in the RB category.

Thanks Jill and Deference. I appreciate your words. The JU peer group is a fickle beast and I hope that people enjoy what I have to say from day to day.

Some excellent points were made:
Cacto:
A respected blogger will know when to call it quits and accept that they are equally as well informed as their opponent and neither is going to convince the other.

I like that a lot and I did not know how to put it into words. There are a few very serious, very passionate bloggers who no one can get through to. Even when the blogger is clearly, demonstrably wrong. That does not win any respect - to hang on to a completely untenable position with both hands. So... an RB "knows when to hold 'em and knows when to fold 'em"?


StevenD:
The prerequisite of a "respected" blogger is not only intelligent expression but the presupposition that he or she is writing to respectful readers.

I am not the sharpest knife in the drawer. ::
I freely admit that most JUsers are both more worldy-wise and book-smart than I. That's why I have to come into a topic respecting and trying to understand others' opinions. 'Cause they could just be smarter and more well-informed!
Open-mindedness is also a vital key to this. Have more humility than bravado, but realize when it's time to put up your dukes.

Something I did not address in my original post:
What are the benefits of being a Respected Blogger?
In other words, "What's in it for me?"
Well, the respect of your JU peer group. People will bookmark to your site and eventually flock to your site to seek your opinion on vital issues. You will get your point -- your point, not someone else's -- across to the masses. Your readers will come to know you as a person and understand you.

Like the Depeche Mode song, "Somebody":
She will listen to me
When I want to speak
About the world we live in
And life in general
Though my views may be wrong
They may even be perverted
She will hear me out
And won't easily be converted
To my way of thinking
In fact she'll often disagree
But at the end of it all
She will understand me

on Feb 20, 2006
Being versed in your topic helps.....some will wail away about a given situation, defending that position without respect to the facts, or lack thereof.....

Tilting at windmills is a hobby best done without audience participation........
on Feb 21, 2006
Being versed in your topic helps... some will wail away about a given situation, defending that position without respect to the facts, or lack thereof...

"We demand rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty!" - Douglas Adams

Yes, one should not go out on a limb without first knowing that limb will support his/her weight. There are a lot of JUsers who just love to harp on one thing over and over again and never let any "light of day" break through. I try to avoid such people and unfortunately it doesn't always work. Then I beat myself up for joining the fray...
on Feb 23, 2006
being willing to "agree to disagree" makes me respect someone whos opinion differs from mine,
on Mar 01, 2006
being willing to "agree to disagree" makes me respect someone whose opinion differs from mine


And so few bloggers are willing to do just that, it drives me crazy. For those people it's their way or the highway. Either the reader agrees 100% with the author of the thread or the author launches into:

1) a verbatim rehash of the original point with no further explanation --or--
2) an abusive tirade, usually involving profanity and the blogger's mother's sexual habits --or--
3) the complete, out-of-hand dismissal of everything the opposer said.

I just wonder how bold and forthright those people are in real life.
on Mar 01, 2006
Being a "respected blogger" is overrated. It's like being respected for how well you masturbate -- both are something you do for your own pleasure, using your own imagination and your own technique.

Having said that, I do respect a certain type of blogger. Oddly enough most of them are not in "my camp," Bakerstreet comes to mind. I've also got mad respect for bloggers like Dylan Zimmerman (who we don't see anymore) who just really know how to turn a phrase. I suppose my idea of respect is when I read something and say "damn, I wish I had written that." Or is that jealousy? Who knows.
on Mar 01, 2006
Being a "respected blogger" is overrated. It's like being respected for how well you masturbate

:: Bwah hah hah!

That is an perfect analogy... may I add an element of visualization?

Blogging is like masturbating... on a park bench in a crowded city square with passersby commenting on your performance and technique.
on Mar 01, 2006
well, we're exhibitionists, eh?
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